Arranged marriages fail some times. The arranged marriages do not break up that easily. There are several reasons why such marriages do not fail so much. A lot of precautions are taken; such as community match, social match, financial stability match and horoscopes match etc. Close friends and relatives come forward to bring about a compromise, if the reasons for break up offer solutions.
With such broad based preparations and precautions, arranged marriages can not fail. But it does fail. May be a few!
After an arranged marriage the two families also establish a bond of relationship and friendship. These families share happiness and grief together. They participate in every ceremony and function. It may be child-birth, naming ceremony, marriage, house warming or funeral. Both the families get involved in these occasions. The daughter of one family becomes the daughter in law of the other family. She is loved and respected.
If and when they break up and seek a divorce, both the families get a shock equal to an earth quake. The shock waves reach their very roots. Every one is confused. They do not know how to react. They do not know what to say to others. When they are invited to other weddings and ceremonies, how will they explain the divorce proceedings$%: How will they justify$%:
The relationship is not like an electric switch; put it on and put it off when you wish. Is there a way to settle their differences$%: Can't they bring about a compromise$%: Those who blessed the couple are confused to the core. Society and horoscopes agreed to such a perfect alliance. And yet!
Was that a properly prepared horoscope$%: May be it is wrong time of birth! Too late, to repair the damage!
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